Valentine Day Towels

Posted on Sunday, January 25th, 2009 at 12:17 pm

Everyone loves a good massage, and it doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg to get one. You, yourself, can be your loved one's masseuse for the night, and forever be remembered as the strong hands that rubbed out the knots, kinks, and soothed any aches and pains away.

Surprise them one night after a long day at work. Set up a quiet room to be their haven of serenity while you work your magic on their body. Dim the lights, and light several scented candles that are your lover's favorite. You need to keep in mind all of their preferences in order to make this night successful. Their favorite candles, favorite music you will play softly in the background, and favorite scented oils or lotions that will be applied generously to their skin as you massage them into oblivion.

Keep in mind that you need to have a surface that is comfortable and stable enough to allow them to lay on it for a significant amount of time. Drape sheets and towels over the make-shift massage table and add a pillow or two for comfort's sake. The temperature of the room should be war, enough so that when their bare skin is exposed, they do not get cold. Use a portable heater if you have one to ensure their comfort.

If you are lucky enough, your partner may want to reciprocate the relaxation massage to their favorite masseuse. If this is the case, you want to consider purchasing a DVD on relaxation massages and other massaging techniques. This is a resource that you and your lover will use for years to come.

Purchasing time with a private massage is always a wonderful Valentine's Day gift as well. If you both get them done at the same time, a similar connection is still created as if it were just the two of you but for lasting benefits, and increased intimacy sharing massage with each other is not only the most powerful but by far the most cost effective.

Relaxation massages are meant to relieve the body of any negative factors that were caused by stress, illnesses, or physical impairments. It opens the spirit and mind, and allows for a person to become focused on what is really important. And who wouldn't want the kind of Valentine's Day gift that will allow you to share in your lover's pleasure?

Do I even bother with Valentines Day?

She broke things off right before Christmas.We had a relationship for 4 1/2 years.She wanted change,so I sought help and found the reason for my behavior and have changed.She told me I am the only guy she had ever fallen in love with.Her other relationship she found love by being with him so long.
This past month I have been trying to re-kindle any feelings that there might be left for me from her..To try and have her fall in love with me all over again like she had in the begining.Trying to show her how much I have changed and just how much I cared and taken the steps enough to change.
The communication is there but only if I am the one to initiate it. I don't want to lose her forever but I know that I can't make her love me.
So what to do for Valentines day?
Is it time to just throw in the towel and move on or should I lavish her with gifts,or a single rose,or just a card. I dont want her to think I am buying her love , but if I do nothing I am not sure what she will think.

I think you should do something spontaneous that makes her know you love her, something you've never done before, something different, make her want to love the new you, try everything you can before you give up. Good luck.

Brawny Man - Happy Valentines Day